September 16, 2025
As Memory Care Director at Vitalia Solon, I asked families navigating the complexities of dementia care to delve into their heartfelt experiences. Their stories are a testament to resilience, love, and the profound lessons learned along the way. Following is wisdom shared by those who have walked this path. It offers insights that resonate deeply with caregivers and families alike.
Patience is one of the most important qualities when caring for a loved one with dementia. Caregivers must slow down their expectations and remember that while their loved one is still the same person, tasks may now take longer or be done differently than before—and that is okay. Success lies in celebrating what the person can still do rather than focusing on what they can no longer manage.
Adaptability is equally essential. Families that learn to go with the flow and adjust plans often have the best outcomes. A loved one may shift from being fine one moment to feeling fatigued, overwhelmed, or confused the next. Arguing or trying to force the original plan only adds distress. Instead, caregivers can adapt—choosing lunch at home instead of dining out, or listening to a favorite record instead of attending a performance. True care means stepping into the loved one’s reality, even if it differs from our own.
When a loved one receives a dementia or Alzheimer’s diagnosis, family roles often shift. A spouse may now act as both partner and caregiver, while adult children might step in as decision-makers, appointment schedulers, or financial managers. Extended family may also provide support.
Open communication and teamwork are critical during this transition, helping relationships evolve and strengthening the family bond. Defined roles can reduce stress and conflict. Recognizing each person’s strengths builds unity. Ultimately, dementia care becomes a shared mission—challenging yet filled with opportunities to deepen connections through planning, problem-solving, and mutual support.
For families just beginning this journey, those with experience offer this advice: “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” Caregivers must also care for themselves. Lean on friends, family, and community resources. Accept help, whether that means someone stepping in so you can rest or joining a support group to share and learn. Local services such as adult day centers, respite programs, and home health care can provide essential relief.
Most importantly, remember you are not alone. You deserve support, care, and compassion, too.
Through ”Lessons from the Journey,” we are reminded the dementia journey is both challenging and transformative. Through patience, adaptability, and unwavering love, families discover their unknown strength. I hope this has provided comfort, guidance, and solidarity to anyone facing similar challenges. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Your stories, experiences, and wisdom are invaluable – they inspire and educate us all. I hope you have enjoyed hearing the voices and lessons of our families affected by dementia.
VITALIA® Solon in Solon, OH offers senior apartments, assisted living, and memory care with a variety of services and a range of floor plan options. Amenities include The Lake Effect Restaurant, a 24-hour bistro, concierge service, housekeeping, events and entertainment, personal care, transportation services, and more. Conveniently located just southwest of Hwy 77 and 480 just moments from Ahuja medical with convenient access to major shopping centers and attractions, including Signature of Solon, Uptown Solon, Cleveland Metro Parks, Rollhouse Solon, and Chagrin Falls Shopping District.
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